'Ordinary moments become doorways for divine action'
Every leader, regardless of their industry, will inevitably face a moment where they are called to "step up." Whether it is launching a new vision, galvanising a community during a crisis, or transitioning into a new, unfamiliar role, these moments are defining. In a Lead On Live masterclass, Bishop Esther Prior shared her profound insights on how to navigate these transitions with faith, courage, and discernment.
The defining question: For such a time as this?
Bishop Esther draws heavily from the biblical story of Esther, specifically the pivotal question posed to her by Mordecai: "Who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?" (7:24).
For leaders, this is more than a historical reference; it is a leadership lens. It helps to sharpen clarity about one's purpose in a specific season. Bishop Esther suggests that when you feel the pressure of a new leadership assignment, you should ask yourself:
- Why me?
- Why here?
- Why now?
This inquiry shifts our perspective from viewing a challenge as a burden to seeing it as an invitation from God to participate in His work (10:36).
Three pillars of stepping up
Bishop Esther identifies three essential qualities for any leader preparing to step into a new, challenging space (13:09):
- Sharpened attention and discernment:
The book of Esther is filled with what she calls "God-incidences", ordinary moments that become doorways for divine action (12:03). Leaders must be observant, asking, "What is going on around me, and what does this reveal about what God might be doing?" (12:32). - Courage:
Stepping up often involves risk, whether to your reputation, comfort, or established routines (13:17). However, remembering that your life has significance in a wider economy provides the necessary courage to move forward. - Collaboration:
"This isn't a hero's game," says Bishop Esther (14:22). She emphasises the importance of calling people alongside you. In her own ministry, this takes the form of intentional prayer partnerships. She doesn't take a single step without knowing someone is praying for her (15:02).
Leading in "not yet" spaces
One of the most practical pieces of advice Bishop Esther offers is how to handle the "not yet" spaces, the seasons where you might feel underutilised or limited in your authority (16:40).
Instead of complaining about a lack of permission or influence, she suggests stewarding the narrow space you have been given (17:11). Ask yourself: "What is the specific task for this season?" Even when a role feels like second-chair leadership, it is an opportunity to honor the leader above you and master the small things before being entrusted with larger ones (18:30).
Learning through hindsight
Reflecting on her career, from school chaplaincy to serving as the Bishop of Aston, Bishop Esther shows how her focus shifted based on the needs of the season:
- As a School Chaplain: Her goal was to "win hearts and minds" within a non-Christian leadership team (20:25).
- As a Prison Chaplain: Her assignment was defined by radical, unconditional love for young offenders (21:06).
- In Parish Ministry: Her role evolved into defining identity and helping communities "punch at their weight" (22:45).
Her biggest takeaway?
Love is the ultimate ingredient in change. Whether you are implementing a new vision or navigating a structural shift, people will follow if they know they are genuinely loved (42:21).
Key Takeaways for Your Leadership Journey
- Don't overthink: If you can love the people in a place and commit to living there, trust the discernment process (32:22).
- Nothing is wasted: God is a good steward of your story. Even difficult or "wasted" seasons are utilized for growth (33:02).
- Embrace change: Acknowledge that most people find change difficult. Don't take resistance personally; instead, listen deeply (42:53).
- Spot the gifts in others: A leader's job is not to do everything but to spot gifts in others that make up for your own limitations (44:06).
As Bishop Esther reminds us, we are all "seen" and "loved" by God. Our lives are part of a larger, beautiful narrative. By maintaining a posture of prayer, discernment, and community, you can step into your next season of leadership with confidence and purpose.